“conversation thief”how to make a clean break from

Although story of the partner was heard, when you become aware, by his taking the story of the partner, you spoke n/a Hasn’t such a “conversational thief” been done unintentionally? The method of resigning from there is taught!

We would like to correct the “conversational thief”!

I have done, in the woman who holds following kind of trouble “one lecture of hearing” participated.

“Me, the “conversational thief” is.It is to intend probably to hear the story of the partner, but the air speak is attached with by your unnoticed, it is.It is to like somehow but n/a ”

When it means that story of the partner has known by his and to have interest, there are no times when by his starts speaking unintentionally? Suddenly when the air is attached, doing the expression which the partner will be dejected, you become aware in by his doing for the first time.

Is not multi to grow hoarse and to grow hoarse little, there to be such experience everyone, probably will be?

You call this conversational thief, “biyoki” is very incurable disease.If with the notion that where you say, without stealing the story of the partner, you try probably to hear properly the extent which is thought, why to stop wanting to steal, because you steal lastly shrewdly, is.

This biyoki probably is why to happen just? When how it does, it probably is to be able to correct?

“Aren’t the arrow of consciousness” faced by your?

As for point “arrow of consciousness”.that one’s consciousness toward the opponent, that is right for me, conversation thief will be a major turning point of whether to become.

please see the figure below. what happens when people and people to communicate, is drawn from the relationship between language and human experience and memory has.

when i listen to talk of the opponent, people are against their knowledge and experience it first. consciousness that his own party to face, is quite normal. but, if this is too strong, knowledge and experience of their own resurrection, so the story is they robbed the story of his own opponent tsuitsui.

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arrow of consciousness i mukeyo against the!

many of the people would use a thief conversation, let’s listen the story of partner firm, people trying to understand. i think the strength of its arrow of consciousness would strongly for yourself the, as a result, it becomes ironic result that the opponent will not listen to the story of.

to wash his feet from the thief this conversation, arrow of consciousness rather than to yourself, be directed to the opponent. that is, is going towards the experience and knowledge in the depths of the words of the opponent. rather than try to understand that, are you going to open my curiosity towards the opponent nothing but.

please see the figure below. rather than going to become a partner was found in only spoke words, are you going to open your curiosity and knowledge of experience in the depths of the word partner.

variant of the thief preaching love conversation

i do not do that i steal the story of human

i also like that you have, when you are talking to members at work, do you have advice and ideas i have also in a hurry to hear the story of the opponent? it also refers to the advice and opinions, mechanism is the same conversation thief and actually.

in this case, arrow of consciousness suited to their own memory and experience is, they are not talking about opinions and advice from their own experience.

this arrow of consciousness to hear the story toward the opponent, will be a big key for the other person who really listen. even though listening to the story of how much the other in silence, to their own arrow of consciousness and it is facing state, and it turns out that the story really is not listening to the opponent’s.

arrow of consciousness to control the, be a good listener!

(reference books)
exquisite how to listen of technology (uto out by masami asuka publisher)

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