cohabitation valuable, fork in the road out of cohabitation of waste

Do you have some kind of thought concerning the relationship of getting married between living together?
Living together and getting married the same you do not have to think.
Living together which is too long keeps distance marriage.
Although burden of the woman increases, desire of marriage of the man becomes weak.
If it is living together which decides period the one which is done is good.

Hearing in the living together experience person who is around you, you think that various opinions return.If now, you live together with the partner of marriage prerequisite, just here we would like to have ascertaining, you verify two points that you would like you to make the living together life which is value.
Don’t you think?, when the partner who thinks of future is, please check by all means even with the person who still does not plan living together!

Should judge the “money” and the method of using “the time”!

While living together, those where we would like to verify, each other are the “money” and method of using “the time”.It is the resource where these are given to us and are limited.It is not possible to designate one day as 24 hours or more, and, it is difficult also for earnings to make directly 2 times, is, but by all means the marriage partner it means to share the resource.

You think even in order to avoid future unnecessary quarrel that during living together period, by yourself you want verifying for feeling to be close.

on the next page, consider the need to match the values of money and time.

(limited resources: 1) spending habits

i hate stingy! yea absolutely spendthrift!
although i think that to speak as anyone, there are subtle sajikagen to each person. so, very easy to spend money and values for the match.

the line which stingy rather than saving , waste, not a luxury believes that is what, you may first try to find a part share in your wallet.

when the couple, going to buy a home trying to fund emigration will be going to the savings and decide the purpose of two people, such as. even if you own thrift to hard, you do not get stressed out and many people have seen it on the spend money on entertainment is not my husband put a value. between cohabitation, to understand each other’s income, even a rough, please, verify whether there is something wrong with money and sense tsukaimichi.

(limited resources: 2) use of time

a week1when kai has continued to date without notice, by together a place to live, new aspect of life as a partner is seen to come.

[1]how do you spend on weekdays
you may adjust the time that life is not without hope that in person it is difficult to. for example,, have been working in media relations, a life without weekends irregular, and those who do not go back to happy with the house, have worked in restaurant, work at dawn from the night, some people have a life of daytime sleep time devoted to.

since it is less time to meet everyday, there is also thought to ensure the time by the cohabitation, passing of time, resolution would be needed if it becomes often difficult to move together.

[2]how do you spend your holiday

includes the use of the holiday, each person is. some of us like it has been rumbling in bed until about noon, some people may want to use to enable up from early morning crispy. it seems like a trivial difference, who is also match by far this is easy to get along.

even if the rest of the long-term, such as holidays, some people like to travel in two people, their hobbies and sports, some people want to give priority to the time of study, such as self-qualification. if you worked on a similar sense of each other, to passing serious, but if i do not, if you have patience and i think either is lonely, follow some can become necessary.

on the next page, let’s look for the cause of the separation after marriage!

cause of the divorce1ranked # is, personality does not fit

directorate general secretariat of the supreme court source: annual report of judicial statistics according to the, another motivation percentage of complaint for divorce on divorce mediation and trial by, 1ranked # is both wife-husband personality does not fit respectively64.0%, 47.6%the most common and i.

match anything that is of course difficult. can also complement different from that, there is also a fun.
but, money and time use of limited resources that are, it is not easy in many cases can also compromise.

love is a partner, please try to verify whether the between-class partner with pleasant life as a partner. will be that which, i think the result of cohabitation valuable. reach even if the marriage as a result, thought was good and can be determined in advance, please do go to the previous!

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